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Im going to mention "we" in this post because i guess.. Everyone also think this way.. err or it is a 'maybe' ? i dunno

okay.. its like this..
Everytime when parents were nagging u, or they said as in 'advice' (they sound more like scolding too) and trying to confront u or something.. As a child, what will u do at the first place?

I think we will be like mumbling and we'll be looking out if we're in the car, rite?
Oh well.. I did look outside.. but i did not mumble or something .. just yeah
I was frus for not to sob la.. but for my situation .. i considered as highly communicating with my parents.. yea.. i do that.. but for some certain reasons rite.. we, teenager.. still wont truly tell all our secrets to our parents, isnt it?
I can tell u why.. it's just because they will still advice u or confront u or even scold you for being so childish or being a so-called negative child .. LOL
Example: If you want to try to h a boyfriend during high school, if u told your parents.. or either one of them.. common sense.. they must be scolding like dunno wat d rite?
yeah.. so it considered as not a good way to express everything u thought of to them some times..
so I sigh.............................
and continue where i stopped.. I were saying i will try not to sob rite? I can explain.. it is because I'm frustrated bout something like what i'd said and another point that is they always believed they're true..

YUP! i knew we, teenagers always think this way or maybe not.. but still cause they DO think they had experienced many many thing or situation or even half of their life gone.. so they think they're some kind of EXPERT.. rite? actually yahlah.. they old ma.. if not..? so they INSIST we to listen to them and blah blah blah..

Actually they thought they observed their child thoroughly.. but NO, some times things cant be predict through looks rite? or expression.. i guess.. things that did not told out are not like wat it seems like too!

So.. err then they also got and even scolding their child for not taking their advice.. ya.. this point.. and sometimes u can even see they did not respect our grandfather or grandmother.. why do you bother to respect them too! rite? and sometimes they also will mumbling why their parents so troublesome...and u know.. they will still mumbling when our grandparents giving out advice.. and weas grandchildren will just follow! isnt it!?

Actually it's easy peasy!.. when parents are wondering why their child not listening to them.. it's just because you're so annoying! true though.. and when they just after school then parent come and fetch.. it's the best time for them to nag u rite? but it is the time where u're DAMN tired and the time where the fight starts.. ahhaa ..

No matter how.. u will be thinking .. THEY are still your parents.. mum says boyfriend or husband can be substitude.. but mum or dad only got 1.. and could not be change or substitute..
even though it's like this.. they everytime thought of nagging u or advising u are for you own good as we can everyday hear that .. but think at a common sense way..
You think your child will listen to you if u KEEP on nagging them?
My answer is they will or will not..
Reasons?
My reason for 'Will' is they keep on listening and listening then the words you speak went into their mind.. so.. it just stays in their mind so they will follow and considered already take your advice..
My reason for 'Will not' is because inside them was unhappy with your 'scolding' .. for them they think negatively until they can even hate their parents for doing that.. and finally outburst..

Anyway, that may be true or may not be true because either one of the lucky child out there having a more 'open-minded' parents, we don't know.. and they can even 'show off' to other child that always having those 'parents advice' la..

that's the reason i said maybe yes or no lor..

I guess i should stop here.. if i continue also will just repeat or talking unnecessary stuffs d..